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Product Title: Ni Ke Yi Nan Guo , Dan Bie Wei Yi Ju Hua Shang Tou Xin 你可以難過,但別為一句話傷透心 你可以难过,但别为一句话伤透心 Ni Ke Yi Nan Guo , Dan Bie Wei Yi Ju Hua Shang Tou Xin Ni Ke Yi Nan Guo , Dan Bie Wei Yi Ju Hua Shang Tou Xin
Author Name(s): Wu Bai Tian Da Cheng (Author) 五百田達成 (Author) 五百田达成 (Author) Wu Bai Tian Da Cheng (Author) Wu Bai Tian Da Cheng (Author)
ISBN: 9789863987703
Release Date: 2022-06-29
Language: Traditional Chinese
Pages: 280 Pages
Publisher: Tian Xia Za Zhi
Package Weight: 450 (g)
Shipment Unit: 3 What is it?
YesAsia Catalog No.: 1114438817

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日本亞馬遜商務溝通類第一名
百萬暢銷書作家五百田達成為高敏感族群特別設計40句防禦金句,讓你不再為一句話傷透

計畫受挫,朋友說:「看吧,早就提醒你了,下次不要這樣了。」
是安慰嗎?怎麼聽起來像打擊?
一起負責專案,同事卻總說:「沒問題,我幫你處理。」
是幫忙嗎?為什麼聽起來像被暴露能?
你正在發言,對方卻頻頻給建議:「我以前都是⋯⋯。」
是分享經驗嗎?怎麼聽起來像頻頻被指教?

安慰、建議、協助⋯⋯明明是能讓人安心的話語,卻很可能讓人更委屈、很受傷。向旁人傾訴,卻得到「別想太多」、「別太敏感了」的回應,難道問題出在我身上?

為什麼有些話說是「為我好」,但聽起來卻這麼傷人?
覺察溝通中的有毒關鍵字,面對棘手對象也能自在應對。不糾結、不委屈。

日本百萬暢銷書作家五百田達成因為高敏感的特質,從小就容易「為他人的一句話所傷」,經常為此苦思「是我做錯什麼嗎?」也在人際關係上吃了許多悶虧。他接觸心理學並取得全球職涯發展師資格,在協助學員的過程中,他發現許多溝通問題都來自於「急於解決問題,忽略同理情緒」於是,他結合心理學理論與自己的經驗,為高敏感族群設計專屬的不受傷溝通法。

把我加回句子裡,用「我訊息」溫和堅定地傳遞情緒,不失禮、不受傷
練習一、在會議上遭到同事質疑:「你現在的報告根據的基準是什麼?」
我訊息回覆:這是我的觀點,我也想聽聽您的想法。

練習二、給予建議時被否定:「比起這件事,我這件事更重要吧!」
我訊息回覆:都很重要喔!不如兩件事一起討論吧,你想先討論哪個?

練習三、朋友失約在先,你詢問對方他卻回:「我道歉可以了吧?」
我訊息回覆:我很擔心你是不是出事了,感覺很不舒服,希望你下次能先告知。

透過40個情境練習,覺察對話中的毒性關鍵字,
面對棘手人物也能堅定說出真實想法,不再為一句話傷透心。

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「書中的文字把人際溝通的想像力與理解力落實得非常接地氣,而且用40個切貼近生活的語句,讓我們反思你和身邊人互動的情境。」——王介安/GAS口語魅力培訓® 創辦人

本書對我來說較有幫助之處是,它提醒了我:在某些情境之中,確實有人會這樣説、會有這樣的想法。我們都能借用這些情境來預演與思考。期盼讀者能在這樣的激盪中,琢磨出屬於自己、適合自己的人際應對智慧。——蘇益賢/臨床心理師
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