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Shan Liang Zhe Bi Dong De 49 Ge An Hei Sai Ju: Ming Bai "Ren Xing Hou Hei Xin Li", Jiu Neng Rang Cheng Gong Bian De Li Suo Dang Ran! (Updated Edition)

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Product Title: Shan Liang Zhe Bi Dong De 49 Ge An Hei Sai Ju: Ming Bai "Ren Xing Hou Hei Xin Li", Jiu Neng Rang Cheng Gong Bian De Li Suo Dang Ran! (Updated Edition) 善良者必懂的49個暗黑賽局:明白「人性厚黑心理」,就能讓成功變得理所當然!(全新修訂版) 善良者必懂的49个暗黑赛局:明白「人性厚黑心理」,就能让成功变得理所当然!(全新修订版) Shan Liang Zhe Bi Dong De 49 Ge An Hei Sai Ju: Ming Bai "Ren Xing Hou Hei Xin Li", Jiu Neng Rang Cheng Gong Bian De Li Suo Dang Ran! (Updated Edition) Shan Liang Zhe Bi Dong De 49 Ge An Hei Sai Ju: Ming Bai "Ren Xing Hou Hei Xin Li", Jiu Neng Rang Cheng Gong Bian De Li Suo Dang Ran! (Updated Edition)
Author Name(s): Tamura Kotaro (Author) 田村耕太郎 (Author) Tamura Kotaro (Author) 田村耕太郎/著 (Author) Tamura Kotaro (Author)
ISBN: 9789869498906
Release Date: 2017-08-03
Language: Traditional Chinese
Pages: 256 Pages
Publisher: Da Le Wen Hua
Package Weight: 380 (g)
Shipment Unit: 2 What is it?
YesAsia Catalog No.: 1061087420

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酸言酸語、不論是非的謾罵、眾人的指指點點……
這些毫無根據的聲音讓人爆氣想反擊!
和麻煩的人交手,善良的人不該妥協,也不用再忍氣吞聲,
因為只要學會「別跟豬打架」就能勝出!

在職場上「能者召忌」是必然的道理,每一次的交鋒讓你耗力傷神,善良的你想「加倍奉還」太難,不如用你的天性學會如何四兩撥千金,漂亮的反彈對手的攻擊,更進一步讓對手的力量變成你的!本書教你看透人性,用一點厚黑精神學應對,保證你也能邁向成功之道!

◎4種容易被「黑」的狀態,你得避免交鋒!
情人分手、夥伴拆夥、戰友背叛、同事批評、競爭對手放話,為什麼這麼衰,老是會成為標靶被人攻擊?你可能習慣當好人,以為別人像你一樣存好心,所以常常在不自覺的情況下,把自己置身在敵營裡,不想讓自己四面楚歌,這四種狀況要小心!
1、惹事生非!別人挖坑你就跳、一有挑釁就想戰,不斷和笨蛋交手讓你到處樹敵!
2、爭出對錯!5種好戰的類型,讓你從英雄變狗熊……
3、得意忘形!如果有一點小成績就開始自以為是,小心現實會把你瞬間推入谷底!
4、有仇必報!滿足了一時的反擊,然後呢?累積的仇恨只會無限循環。

◎11個戰略技巧,讓你在任何「賽局」都能輕而易舉
職場如戰場,但孫子兵法強調「不打無謂之仗」!這可不是要善良的你委曲求全,你非戰不可的時候,記得「鬥智」才是你在賽局中的武器!無論先手、後手還是攻防戰,想成為贏家,這11個戰略必須牢記:
.借力使力:報復的極致之道,是把對手的力道變成自己的。
.放下尊嚴:面子掛不住?無損利益的時候就別在意。
.忍耐:養成慎重行事的習慣,抓準時機再出手。
.不回應:好心不是就要被吃定,聰明的你只是懂得要適時逃跑。

◎兵不厭詐,用「人性心理」讓對手為你抬轎!
在多數情況下,能看穿對手行為模式,你就能避開許多麻煩;更進一步,若你懂得善加利用人性,就會離成功更近!你不必強迫自己與人交惡,只要找出彼此的利害關係,並保有尊重之心,就能開始發揮影響力改變他人。
.充分讀懂對手的情緒,為他人著想,用良善天性建立彼此的信任模式。
.反操作!用三招讓他照你的想法做事。
.運用他人的善意加一點點演技,就能拉攏人心。
.試著接受「壞心眼」的人指教,你也會跟著努力動腦思考。

◎耍點小「心機」,營造你無可取代的身價
有些人為了有更多機會實現理想,八面玲瓏的向權力中心靠攏。如果你還以為被人撞開搶走機會沒甚麼,小心被吃死死!偶爾來點小手段並不影響你的人格,你一樣可以保有自我,甚至藉此提升自己的身價!
.好人都以為自己努力會被看見,但小心你可能一輩子會被埋沒!
.拍馬屁、抱大腿,那不是做自己!?為了理想配合一下也無妨。
.沒有權力也能做事的生存之道,你的實踐方法是……
.接近核心的最高指導原則──「西瓜偎大邊」。

◎不要小看自己,這樣做你就是賽局裡最強操盤人!
你覺得自己技不如人、氣場薄弱嗎?別灰心喪志了!用一點策略性的生存態度,就能為你開闢出一條光明之路。別忘記,只有你自己才是主角,這場賽局能否打得精采漂亮,決定權完全在你!因此,有些奠基你成功之道的方法得學起來……
.別被社群網站的謾罵控制你的時間和思想,你要學會的是面對真實的自己。
.跳脫舒適圈,往優秀人才群聚的地方前進,你才會跟著進步。
.學會獨處,不受他人評價的影響,好好問自己真正要的是什麼。
.別認為「反正時間還有很多」,請珍惜與感恩當下。

*此書為《敵人心理學》第二版。

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