She Remembers, He Forgets (2015) (Blu-ray) (Hong Kong Version) Blu-ray Region A

She Remembers, He Remembers opens in the present day, following married couple Gigi (Miriam Yeung) and Shing-Wah (Jan Lam) as they muddle through daily life. Gigi works as a travel agent while Shing-Wah runs an interior design firm, and their conflicting work schedules and faltering communication show a marriage mired in a midlife malaise. After attending a college reunion, a nostalgic Gigi recalls her college days, when teen versions of herself (Cecilia So) and Shing-Wah (Nick Yau) met amidst endless lectures and school activities. There was a third party, however: So Bok-Man (Ng Siu-Hin), whose serious intelligence and dreams of flying contrasted with Shing-Wah's irreverent attitude and more grounded creative ambitions. For a while the three were inseparable friends, discussing their future dreams and bonding over a shared pet (Gigi found an abandoned white cockatoo). However, Gigi could only choose one of them.

Of course Gigi eventually chose Shing-Wah, and their fate apparently hinged on a single event: the Ying Yan College Open Day, when Shing-Wah built a miniature Hong Kong while Bok-Man had his own special flight project. Both tried to gain Gigi's attention that day, and periodic flashbacks build towards a climactic reveal of how exactly Gigi chose Shing-Wah over Bok-Man. That's one of the film's two big questions, the second one being, "Where is Bok-Man now?" As the present-day Gigi begins to suspect that Shing-Wah is having an affair, she becomes more active in looking for Bok-Man's whereabouts. Her search requires little more than some Internet surfing and a particularly convenient meeting, but through these actions, Gigi is able to find some realizations about herself and both men. That said, it's pretty easy to figure out where Gigi and Shing-Wah finally end up. The film attempts narrative tension with its structure, but delivers little actual surprise.

Despite its common themes and story elements, She Remembers, He Forgets may be too ambitious. Its non-linear storytelling introduces too many running threads, and Adam Wong can’t keep all of them active or immediate. Shifts between the past and present are inconsistent; sometimes a past scene will relate directly to something in the present, but other times the film simply cuts with no apparent rhythm. The pivotal Open Day event creates suspense but the final reveal doesn’t really justify its use. Gigi's decision of who to love seems like a random happenstance more than a deliberate decision – which may be the filmmakers' intention, as fate's vagaries are a worthwhile subject. However, She Remembers, He Forgets doesn’t work like a Sliding Doors, where the "what if" matters. When the film reveals how Gigi chose Shing-Wah, the response is just, "Oh, that’s how it happened," and we don’t see what was really lost besides one person being sadder than the others.

Also, the reveal removes Gigi's agency, making the younger version feel somewhat like a cipher. Newcomer Cecilia So has a fresh, endearing presence that's hurt by her passivity, while Nick Yau performs decently as the comparatively lesser-developed Shing-Wah. Of the young actors, Ng Siu-Hin makes the strongest impression as Bok-Man, though that may be because the camera focuses on his expressions more, giving him a stronger inner life. As the adult versions of the main characters, Miriam Yeung and Jan Lam are fine. Yeung is immediately believable as a mature woman nearing midlife, while Lam possesses an undercurrent of bitterness that subtly conveys his character's slow, almost begrudging maturation. Unfortunately, the adults do little of real import. They make small moves to find new positivity in their lives, but few decisive actions are taken. For a film about so many identifiable emotions, She Remembers, He Forgets is oddly not that good at making them resonate with the audience.

The film does possess marvelous details. The tone is pleasant, the art direction is great, and the soaring aerial camerawork of Hong Kong shows the city in a stirring, rare light. The depiction of nineties school life is enjoyable; Adam Wong has a real talent for capturing youthful energy, and brings it to the screen with remarkable affect. Select cameos and references add appeal for local audiences, though Wong adds a reference to himself and The Way We Dance that's cringeworthy. Also, the classroom scenes are entertaining. The script offers relevant discussion of youthful dreams, but only partially addresses the practical reality that comes with them. This theme is actually very appropriate, especially given some of the plot turns in the present, but it's ultimately something that just kind of falls by the wayside. She Remembers, He Forgets seems to possess everything that it needs, from themes to emotions to situations, but it can't put everything into its proper place, resulting in a work that, no matter how much it yearns to, doesn’t fully take flight. I admire the effort, though.

by Kozo - LoveHKFilm.com